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4 Secrets To Get Along With Diffucult People

We all have difficult people in our lives. You knowthe ones you dread talking to; the ones you try to avoid at all costs. They may be your ex-spouse, a co-worker, or a family member; they may be a bully, a control freak, passive-aggressive or someone who loves to play the role of victim. So, how do we deal with these people? How can we work together productively, whether in a parenting, a working, or a family relationship? Here are a few secrets to being able to keep your cool when dealing with that difficult person in your life: 1. Know Your Triggers Self-knowledge is powerful. We all have subjects and idiosyncrasies that push our buttons, and I can almost guarantee that the difficult person in your life knows what those arebut do you? Spend some time exploring what really ticks you off. Is it when somebody talks about politics, money, or your family? Once you have your list of those trigger buttons, you are ready to arm yourself. Create a plan. What will you do when the conversation